Rachel Becker
April 23, 2012
Moodle Post – Sex Tourism
Wonders
and Michalowski (2001) serves as an excellent overview of sex tourism as a
global practice. They say that,
“Cross-border tourism typically reverses this pattern [less advantaged people
migrating to more developed countries in search of opportunity] as privileged
bodies from industrialized nations cross into less developed ones in search of
exotic pleasures and a little (highly controlled) danger” (Wonders and
Michalowski 2001; p. 548). In this way,
migration is defined as an act for the less privileged. They are allowed to work and to provide
pleasure and comfort for others.
Tourists can afford to vacation, to take a break from their lives and
purchase pleasure. Because we are
operating both under a culture of consumption and a culture of privilege, we
feel entitled to this practice and to get as much of it as we feel we
need. We expect our needs to be
fulfilled. This raised the question for
me of why anyone feels entitled to use anyone else for self-satisfaction,
exotic or otherwise. These tourists feel
that they are being open minded and experiencing new things while really just
validating their pre-existing beliefs. It
certainly has something to do with capitalism – sex tourists feel that they are
paying for a service and that entitles them to appreciate it without
shame. In fact, Wonders and Michalowski
(2001) point out that the “global sex industry is worth ‘at least $20 billion a
year and probably many times that’” (p. 549).
That is the largest reason that little has been done to slow this
practice.
Wonders
and Michalowski (2001) quote other authors in writing about Thailand. They say, “’Thailand is like a stage where
men from around the world come to perform their role of male supremacy over
women and their white supremacy over Thai people’” (p. 550). In this way, not one but two forms of
privilege are being enacted and taken advantage of – race and gender. This blends nicely into Thomas Fuller’s
(2010) article titled, “A Thai City of Sleaze Tries to Clean Up.” Again, I have an issue with this title. It may very well be a sleazy city, but it
seems like horribly biased journalism to present that as the only option within
the city. Fuller (2010) writes, “If Las
Vegas is Sin City, Pattaya is a bear hug from Lucifer himself” (p. 1). There is nothing about that sentence that
isn’t sensationalist and a massive generalization. I also wondered who got to decide that it was
a city of sleaze – that seems like a privileged position to be able to make
that call. And I was not surprised at
all to find that it was US soldiers who took a quiet and beautiful fishing town
and turned it into a city of depraved hedonism.
Still, though, it is foreigners who frequent this city and make their
economy possible; it can’t come from within.
I found it particularly telling that the director of the Pattaya branch
of that Thai tourism office was so blunt about this. He said, “’You talk about sustainable
development, how about prostitutes? They
have been around for a very long time,’ Mr. Niti said. ‘We can’t close down the go-go bars. It’s a free country. Besides, it makes money’” (Fuller 2010; p.
3). This raises a few questions. Are we really to believe that nothing can be
changed just because it has been existence for a long time? And this may be a free country (is it?), but
are these women free at all? Are they
free from disease and free to decide when they get pregnant? I have no idea. Lastly, this ties back into the Wonders and
Michalowski (2001) article – why is this country so different from Amsterdam?
I
was very interested in the dichotomy explored in Davidson and Taylor’s “Fantasy
Islands” between the sexualities of women of color and those of White
women. According to this article, they
are often perceived as two entirely different entities. Here, men of all races are thought to be
acting on racial socializations that promote women of color as naturally sexual
whereas White women are repressed. At
the same time, when White women aren’t quiet about what they want from a sexual
partner, they are seen as demanding and too much work. Davidson and Taylor say, “’With an
increasingly active global feminist movement, male-controlled sexuality (or
female passivity) appears to be an increasingly scarce resource’” (p.
454). In this way, men looking to
prostitutes is the fault of women again.
Here, the connotation is that they do not satisfy sexually and have in
fact joined up in order to empower themselves and be hostile to men. Women of color are viewed as the other in
this situation and that is especially dangerous because it dehumanizes them and
leaves them in an incredibly vulnerable situation. At the same time, sex tourists often want
affection from the women they are seeing and are paying for the illusion of
desire. It’s a weird disconnect between
wanting totally aggressive, objective sex and wanting a connection with a
person who you are not willing to treat as a person. The women in Taylor’s (2006) article do
something very similar when they want sex and to be made to feel attractive by
much younger men who they are paying to flatter them. These authors also raised the issue of sex
tourists helping the women they hire by supporting them financially. Although we see in the case of Pattaya that this
industry was started by US soldiers and we are therefore responsible, these men
that they are continuing to help these women to survive. Again, they are merely paying for a service
that they would be engaging in anyway because they are so primitive. It is a very similar narrative between the
female and the male sex tourists – how much agency can the people they are
seeing really have?
The
idea of a nanny, especially a live-in one, has always been a little strange to
me. I understand that mothers need and
deserve help with their children, but I wonder when a line is crossed and that
person is more bonded to their child than they are. An entirely other level is added to this when
mothers leave the Philippines to raise children in other countries, leaving
their children to be raised by poorer Filipino women. Again, I understand that this could be the
more reasonable financial decision, but how is this possibly a more reasonable solution? What does this do to children? To a mother’s bond with each set of
children? It all seems horribly
confusing and upsetting. I also thought
Taylor’s (2006) point that, “in its commodification, the worth of reproductive labor
declines in society… ‘When performed by mothers, we call this mothering… when
performed by hired hands, we call it unskilled’” (p. 562). Of course, this is to say that we give any
value to mothering to begin with.
I liked this point: "It’s a weird disconnect between wanting totally aggressive, objective sex and wanting a connection with a person who you are not willing to treat as a person."
ReplyDeleteThe idea that someone would want a connection with a person, but isn't willing to treat that person with respect shows how selfish we can be. We expect everything from everyone else, but when they ask for something in return? Forget about it. I think this problem is even further amplified in hegemonic masculinity because these men are told that not only are these uneven relationships the way relationships are supposed to be, but that they are ENTITLED to such a relationship. But obviously, no one would enter into a relationship with such a great power disparity for free, so these men have to other places to pay for them.
I think your comment about the quote, “’Thailand is like a stage where men from around the world come to perform their role of male supremacy over women and their white supremacy over Thai people’” (p. 550), is central to the theme of this week's articles. This quote brings up both the issues of gender and race that play roles in sex tourism. Western men travel across seas to less "civilized" countries where they know they can get away with things they could not in their more "civilized" western societies. They see these exotic adventures as a way to assert their masculinity on week women in less progressive countries. When they participate in sex tourism they are looking to dominate these women and to prove their male power. Similarly, as white males, in their western countries they see their sole societal power slipping away. By participating in sex tourism these man are able to reassert their racial power as well.
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